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Nora and TLM-P's children

Much to Nora's dismay, she and TLM-P she had 8 children. Unlike Matilda, Nora gave birth in urban settings with help at hand. She also remained healthy, so her babies were not so vulnerable: only one (Emmeline) died in infancy. Her children's choices when they grew up were firmly against marriage. Only 2 of her 4 surviving daughters married; only 1 of her 3 sons did so. While there was a dip in marriage rates at the time, and heterosexuality cannot be assumed, it is hard to escape the conclusion that one factor was their first-hand experience of the economic and personal costs of their father's fecundity.

1. Matilda (Meta) Aimee (25 September 18731)- 18 August 1939). Meta was born at 'Montpellier', Kangaroo Point, Brisbane, and was baptised at the Kangaroo Point Church of England.2) It was a difficult pregnancy as Nora had been sick for much of it.3) For at least four months during her early pregnancy, she was 'plagued' by 'a certain unpleasant lethargy of mind and body … combined with a heavy inclination to headache … [a] chronic sick headache'.4). Nora wrote to her step-daughter shortly after Meta's birth that Dr William Hobbs, a prominent Brisbane doctor, had cured her headaches so that she felt 'young and skittish again'.5) Dr Hobbs went on to deliver six of Nora's children6) and she was dismayed when she thought he might not be in Brisbane to deliver her second youngest son Robert.

In one of life's coincidences (and indicative of the small population of Queensland then), baby Meta grew up to marry, on 15 April 1896 at All Saints Church of England in Brisbane, Dr Hobbs' son Arthur, a solicitor who lived in Townsville.7) Not surprisingly, he became his widowed mother-in-law's solicitor.8) Arthur's mother was Anna nee Barton,9) no relation to Nora but a sister of (later Sir) Edmund Barton, who became Australia's first Prime Minister. It says much about Nora that, when Meta married, she and Meta's eldest step-brother shared the duties that would have been TLM-P's if he had been alive. Thomas de M. M-P escorted Meta up the aisle, but it was Nora who gave her daughter away.10) Later in life, by 1913, Meta lived in the Brisbane suburb of Ascot.11)

When Nora wrote to Rosa Praed, she often described her children. In 1883, when Meta was a young girl, Nora described her having 'little bent towards book learning preferring outdoor pursuits of any description, but she has observation & is shrewd, going straight to the root of any question & taking a common sense, & not a conventional, view of matters… She is quite on the ground, never soars to the stars but sees what is on the ground plainly & shrewdly.'; 'Meta is Papa all over from top to toe – in deposition I mean, so trustworthy & strong & self-confident I already lean on her a great deal.' However, she suffered in comparison to her more attractive younger sister Dorothy.12)

Meta and Arthur Hobbs had two children - more information is available for family members.
Meta and her son 'Bartie' from TLM-P's photo album.13)

Meta, like all of TLM-P's daughters, received her basic education at home from governesses, her mother and older siblings. Like her paternal uncle William M-P and maternal aunt Emily Susan Paterson, Meta was a talented artist, judging from a lovely watercolour of a swallow and orchids by a river in the NLA.
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She also wrote poetry.15) A 17 page handwritten story of hers survives: the copy is dated July 192516), inscribed 'For Mother', with the title “With the Sultan through Spicer's Gap. A Round Trip from Brisbane to Warwick and Back'. It is a well-written story of a family car trip with “the Sultan”, her husband, and daughter (“Miss N.S.W.”).17)

For photos of Meta as a child, click on Meta photos

2. Emmeline Mary (18 May 187518)- 5 February 187619)20) Nora hired a Brisbane midwife, Mrs Nevison, who agreed to come to Maroon for her birth and that of a neighbour. Mrs Nevison was, Nora wrote to Rosa, 'a charming old lady'21) Although Nora appreciated Maroon with its 'bright pure air', after the birth she complained that, as none of her four women servants were mothers, there was no-one on hand to advise her about baby care.22) Unfortunately, Mrs Nevison had had to leave after two weeks, as the neighbour gave birth early. Then Emmeline fell ill and Nora floundered until a neighbour advised her. Although Nora had trained as a nurse, it was at Sydney Infirmary (later Hospital) which did not offer midwifery nor (to use a modern term) paediatrics. Given this experience, none of her other babies were born at home.

There are numerous copies of this photo of Emmeline in her parents' albums. It was taken in Brisbane before Nora took her baby to Sydney to see her family. Before the photos could be distributed by her proud parents, Emmeline died. She was just over 8 months old.23) Emmeline was buried at Ryde, probably in the churchyard of St Anne's Church of England where her parents married.24)

Emmeline's death certificate reveals how quickly babies could die from bacterial infections in those pre-antibiotic days. Nora was staying at Richmond Terrace next to the Domain and near Sydney Hospital and her former nursing Matron Lucy Osburn, but it was to no avail when, on 2 February, Emmeline became sick with diarrhoea.25) Four days later, despite a doctor's attendance, she was dead. Summer diarrhoea was a prime cause of death for babies at the time, usually caused by contaminated milk or water. Emmeline's death certificate was sent to her father at Maroon - his fifth child to die as a baby.

While Nora was struggling before and just after Emmeline's birth - but before the baby died - Nora wrote to Rosa Praed as a kindred spirit: 'As for me I shall be bitterly disappointed if I ever see signs of another [pregnancy]'.26)

3. Dorothea (Dorothy) Katherine, B.A (University of Sydney) (13 December 187627)- 2 January 194028)) She was born and baptised at Kangaroo Point, Brisbane 29) and called Dolly when young.30) Nora was always clear-eyed about her children, but with Dorothy she had nothing but praise. When Dorothy was around 8 years old and travelling in Europe with her family, Nora wrote to Rosa that 'Dorothy is made much of by everyone, little or big. She was a pretty face, is clever & bright, & has pleasant gentle manners.'31)

In 1900 Dorothy enrolled at the University of Sydney to complete the first year of her Bachelor of Arts degree. Like her step-cousin Mabel the year before, she lived at the Women's College. Dorothy's first year was particularly successful: she passed French with first class honours and German with second class honours. She also won three prizes awarded to Women's College students: the Kambala Prize - books to the value of £5 awarded to best student who 'found it difficult otherwise to afford the necessary expenses of residence at the College'; the Grace Frazer scholarship awarded to the best matriculant entering the College that year; and she shared the French Prize, books presented to the student showing the greatest knowledge of French.32)

Photo of Dorothy.33) For more photos of Dorothy, click on Dorothy photos

Dorothy was very attractive, a quality which her mother acknowledged when she chose a verse from Tennyson to describe her: 'To doubt her fairness were to want an eye/ To doubt her pureness were to want a heart.'34) Dorothy's interests were intellectual and literary: again a book provides some evidence, one with the inscription, '1st Prize. For massive brain! Dorothy Prior. Stephanie Woodward 9.12.08'.35)

Like her youngest sister Ruth, Dorothy remained single, looking after their mother in her old age in London. Remaining single was not an odd choice for women in Australia or Britain at the time. For women born in Australia during 1871-76, just before Dorothy's birth, 17 per cent never married.36)

Dorothy was very reluctant to go overseas and one wonders what she was sacrificing to follow her mother and younger sister.37) During the war Dorothy joined the Voluntary Aid Detachment (VAD) working as a cook in the buffet at Waterloo station.38) She, along with her sister Ruth, also had the task of supporting relatives who had enlisted in the war. A cousin, Max Barton, was first listed missing and, as with so many others in the chaos of war, his mother in Australia was left not knowing if he was killed, a prisoner, or wounded and unable to identify himself. Dorothy and Ruth both worked to discover the truth and wrote consoling letters to their aunt. Sadly both Max and his brother Tony died.39)

On their mother's death in 1931, the sisters permanently returned to Australia.40) They subsequently lived at 'Drak', 17 Madeline Street, Hunter's Hill. When Dorothy died, her sole executor was her sister Ruth. Her estate was valued at £5,539/10/241).

4. Alienora (known as Eileen) May (31 May 187842)- 1955). She was born and baptised at Kangaroo Point, Brisbane.43) Her engagement when she was 20 caused Florence M-P concern, writing from Maroon that Eileen was too young 'to realize what a fearful struggle life is without means', and the difficulty of raising children without the 'barest necessities of life'.44) Perhaps for these economic reasons, she did not marry Rowan Purdon Hickson (1873-1952) until December 1902. They married at Ryde, probably at St Anne's.45)

Eileen and Rowan Hickson had five children - more information is available for family members.

Gabrielle Shannon recalls that, as a child, she used to visit Eileen in her old age as 'they lived just along the street from us [in Hunters Hill]. She lived in the past and her flat was a fascinating place for a child to visit. She used to produce a play each year and always gave me a good part for which I was very grateful, but one year she put on a play she had written herself and it was embarrassing because it was so awful.'46)

Eleven months after Eileen's birth, Nora had a miscarriage. She referred to it as a 'catastrophe', but it is likely she was also relieved. As she wrote to Rosa in the same month, 'How much more pleasant it is to hear … 'How is your book' than 'how is your baby?' Alas! my mission seems to be to produce only the more commonplace article and I had such good reasons to for thinking my tasks and troubles over in that line'.47)

From January, Nora apparently lodged at Mr Jephson's boarding house 'Longreach' in Brisbane while waiting for Fred's birth.48)

5. Frederic (Fred) Maurice (949) March 188050) - 29 September 1956). He was born in Brisbane, and baptised at Kangaroo Point church.51) Despite her dismay at having more children, and concern that 'colonial boys are often great louts - and it is so difficult to know what to do with them',52) Nora was a loving mother. She told Rosa that baby Fred 'is a fine bonny fellow, sturdy enough and sufficiently like [his] Papa to console me for his existence.'53) Frederic's first names were a tribute to the Rev. Frederick Maurice, Nora's uncle by marriage and a founder of the Christian Socialist movement. For more click on Rev. Maurice and family.

A photo of Fred as a young boy: This copy is in the ML (PXE1320) and is unfortunately behind plastic so it is difficult to photograph. Another copy of this photo is in the Oxley Library, Brisbane, see QJO.

Fred and his younger brother Robert first went to Bowen House Preparatory School at Ipswich; it took in boys from 7 years of age.54) This was closer to Maroon - a decision in stark contrast to what was believed the disaster of sending Matilda's young sons to school in Hobart. When Fred and his brothers were older they transferred to the more prestigious - and further away - Brisbane Grammar.55) In 1894 at Brisbane Grammar, Fred was awarded Heroes and Kings. Stories from the Greek (1890), as a prize for maths. Like most book prizes from that and subsequent decades, it appears little read.

The last Australian reference found for Fred is in 1905, when the Supreme Court was asked to interpret his father's will.56) The next reference found is to his death in New Zealand in 1956, complicated by his surname being mispelt as Murray Pryor. His death certificate reveals his sad story. He died in Auckland Mental Hospital of bronchopneumonia, but was noted as having suffered for 'years' from two other diseases, both of them highly stigmatised at the time: tuberculosis and schizophrenia. As was so often the case for mental health patients, little was known about him by the time he died. The length of time he had lived in New Zealand, as well as whether he had ever married, were consequently both recorded as unknown.57) His death was deemed natural so no inquest was performed.58)

After adding 5 children to the already large family in 5½ years, Nora understandably did not want any more. When her niece Minnie Lightoller asked her for patterns to make baby clothes, Nora wrote to Rosa Praed making that very clear: 'I sincerely hope that the mission of my layettes in future may be to serve as patterns for other people's babies' and not her own. She added, 'What a blessing that good fairy would receive from me who would give me a charm to work that end'.59) Effective birth control remained elusive, and 7 months after her letter, she again conceived.

Faced with having a sixth child, and her seventh pregnancy, and with no kindred spirit to share her concerns, she poured out her heart to her friend and step-daughter Rosa. When she was a couple of months pregnant, she commented on how another pregnant woman looked 'wretchedly ill and miserable'. Referring to pregnancy as a 'matrimonial trouble', she again dreamed of a freer future: 'Oh these babies - these babies - I am sure that a day will come (that I shall never see) when a plan of “artificial maternity” shall be matured and the present clumsy way of populating the world be done away with'. Queensland's February heat increased her discomfort, leading her to write to Rosa that 'A wife in Australia has a hard time of it … I am not [sure] that in hot climates polygamy would not be advisable.'60)

In April, she again referred to her pregnancy in negative terms, enhanced by fear that Dr Hobbs would be overseas during the delivery (she was relieved to find out he would be available) and a well-grounded fear that any replacement doctor who would deliver the baby could be drunk.61) In very late pregnancy, her discomfort led her to be more negative. Two weeks before her next baby was born she was writing to Rosa: 'Oh! these dreadful, dreadful babies'.62)

6. Robert Sterling (29 August 188163)-31 May 1962).64) When young, his family called him Robin; in later life friends called him Bob. He was named Sterling after his mother's cousins: for more, click on Sterling. Robert's birth registration gives his birthplace as Stanley Street, South Brisbane; this was an establishment, run by a Mrs Scott.65)

The move to hospital rather than home births could mean a significant rise in maternal mortality due to cross-infections, but that depended on the numbers of women cared for at once - an establishment like Mrs Scott's may well have only taken in a few women at a time. A key motivator of Nora and her contemporaries to move away from home births was access to effective pain relief.66) For Robert's birth, Nora wrote to her step-daughter, 'As the doctor was away … I did not have access to my beloved chloroform'.67) Nora was lucky as it was a face presentation and it needed a skilled midwife to deliver the baby safely.68) It was consequently a painful delivery with TLM-P commenting in his diary, 'found Nora and the little one doing well. She had a hard time of it on Monday [for the birth]'69)

Despite Dr Hobbs' absence, TLM-P paid him five guineas. Mrs Scott's was also expensive - two guineas a week for a bed and sitting room, with a nurse paid one guinea a week to care for the baby during the dangerous month after birth. After that, Nora and baby returned to Maroon along with a nursemaid who was paid 10 shillings a week.70) As Nora was only too well aware, children were expensive. Robert was baptised at the Kangaroo Point Church of England in Brisbane.71)

In 1897, Robert was at Toowoomba Grammar School.72) A book - another school prize that appears to be little read - reveals that the next year he was at Sydney Grammar, receiving a prize for maths when in 'division 6' in 1898.73)

One of the ubiquitous street photos of the time: Robert M-P dressed for work as a barrister, 1955.74) For more photos of Robert and his family, click Robert M-P

Robert was admitted to the NSW bar in November 1908; as a barrister, he specialised in probate law. Family lore has it that he did not enjoy that area of practice largely because it so often involved bitter family disputes. It is also understood that he challenged the power of law clerks to distribute briefs - he lost that battle and thereafter the clerks avoided giving him briefs, much to the detriment of his practice.75)

Robert M-P was a political conservative, a prominent Mason and active in his local community of Hunters Hill, becoming its mayor in 1935. During World War II he was employed as a censor.76). Murray Prior Reserve, George Street, Hunters Hill is named after him. He was also active in community groups. In c.1901, he was the founding Honorary Treasurer of the Gladesville Volunteer Fire Brigade.77) A small medal dated March 1902 has inscribed on the reverse that it was presented to him 'by the G.C.& D. Society for his zealous work as Secretary' - just what was that Society is unknown though G perhaps stands for Gladesville.78) He was also a founder, President and keen actor for the Hunters Hill Playreading and Dramatic Club.79) While in his twenties, he wrote the genealogical history of his family, 'The Blood Royal of the Murray-Priors'.

Robert married on 22 April 1908, Estella (Stella) Augusta Herring 1883-17 September 1968.80) She was born at Gladesville on 4 March 188381); her brother Sydney had married Robert's step-niece, a daughter of Florence and Thomas de M.M-P. Stella Herring was reputedly brought up by nannies in an austere fashion, normally seeing her parents only to say goodnight, and at a set and limited period on the weekends.82) Her father was Gerald Herring, a Mayor of Ryde: Herring Road, North Ryde is named after him. On her marriage certificate, Stella gave his occupation as 'gentleman'; Robert described TLM-P as a grazier. After their marriage, Robert and Stella lived at 1 Yerton Avenue, Hunters Hill (the noted artist Nora Heysen lived at no. 2 Yerton Ave). With the death of Robert's sister Ruth M-P, they moved to her home at 17 Madeline Street, Hunters Hill. Click here for certificates.

Robert and Stella had five children - more information is available for family members.

In his will, Robert left a collection of his step-sister Rosa Praed's books to the Royal Geographic Society of Australia, Queensland branch.83)

Nora was dismayed when she again became pregnant, around two years after Robert's birth. She apparently delayed telling Rosa until she could put it off no longer: “Open confession is good for the soul and nothing can be hidden forever, and you can perhaps imagine some little of the mortification, chagrin and disgust [with] which I have been forced to recognise myself as once again in the valley of the shadow of a baby. … All pleasant plans were broken up and at an end. So many more years of necessary repetition in this quiet dull place, of which by the bye, I am heartily fond when I do not feel eternally tied to it … [baby] being forced into world where he is not at all wanted.84)

7. Julius (Jules) Orlebar (25 March 1884 - 6 October 193185)). Nora's 'poor little morsel' was born at 'Ervingstone',86) Stanley Street, South Brisbane87) and baptised at the Kangaroo Point Church of England.88) Julius never married and had no known children. His second name of Orlebar was the family name of TLM-P's maternal grandmother; when TLM-P visited his daughter Rosa Praed in England, they visited the widowed 'Mrs Olebar' whom he thought was 'nearly 80 a very nice looking old lady' with two daughters.89)

Julius was three months old when Nora wrote to Rosa about her 'morbid thoughts and feelings' during pregnancy and what we would now call a mid-life crisis (Nora was then 37 years old):' You have brought a life into an uncertain world of wrecks and disease and dynamite explosions. Your heart’s love is irrevocably invested in that life.“90) As far as childhood diseases went, necessity meant that she had gained considerable confidence, writing to Rosa that 'Fortunately I am now quite as good as a Doctor with baby complaints', which was fortunate given she also assured her that 'as little as I care for having babies, I should like losing those I have still less.'91)

Like his brothers Fred and Robert, Julius initially went to school at Bowen House in Brisbane, the preparatory school for Brisbane Grammar.92) While still a schoolboy, he moved with his mother and other siblings to Sydney where they lived in a home called Karlite (or Karlyte) at Gladesville.93) In 1901, the 17-year-old won two prizes at a Flower Show to raise money for the Anglican church at Gladesville (his sisters, Eileen and Dorothy, entered the table decoration category, but were unsuccessful).94) In 1909, 24 year-old Julius was described as a stockman in the Gulf of Carpentaria and 'a bit of a mug'. The latter was because, on the train down to Sydney, he was fleeced £4 at cards - understandably, he was 'greatly agitated' at the loss - in 2017 values it was around $548, a lot for a young stockman to lose before even arriving in the city.95) He gave his address in Sydney as 'Abalar', Darling Point Road, Darling Point.96)

Sometime after this widely reported incident, he went to Western Australia. There are two photos of him held by the National Archives of Australia when he was part of an exploring expedition in the Kimberleys in 1911. Click on Julius second from left back row and Julius far left. The Kimberleys was a popular destination for Queensland graziers eager for new land, such as the famed Durack family.97) Julius's sister Ruth wrote that he had been a special constable in the north of Western Australia to deal with Aboriginal resistance which took the form of cattle spearing and murder.98)

Julius was still in West Australia when World War I began, changing the lives of all such young men. On 8 November 1914, he enlisted as a Private in the 10th Australian Light Horse Regiment. On enlistment he gave his occupation as a grazier and his record shows he was a tall man (6'2½”) who weighed 12 stone.99) According to his sister Ruth, the Light Horse was a logical choice as Julius was a good horseman. Julius sailed from Australia in February 1915. His regiment's first action was at Gallipoli; thereafter it remained in the Middle East. In 1915 he was promoted to corporal; his cousin Tony Barton commented that, 'I had a long yarn with Jules the other day and he seems to be much the same as he always was. He is a corporal but I should think his lack of self-confidence was a bit of a draw back to him.'100) Despite that lack of self-confidence, he was again promoted, in 1917 to Sergeant. Julius was wounded in action at Gallipoli in 1915, with shrapnel in his leg.101) Ruth reported that he had been taken to the hospital on the Greek island of Lemnos; when he returned to his unit, out of 1,000 men he could find less than 50 still alive.102) This once fit and healthy man was again sick in December 1915, and hospitalised several times in the remaining years of the war. As soldiers just appeared on casualty lists with no details, and Julius had given his mother in London as his next-of-kin, his Australian relatives were left in the dark until details went first to London then back to Sydney. Both Miss E. Hobbs (a niece?) and his brother Robert accordingly wrote directly to the army (in the latter case, the Minister for Defence) asking for quicker information. A month before the armistice, Julius was again in hospital, this time with influenza, the beginning of the world-wide pandemic which would kill more people than the War. He remained in the army for 1919, was given medical clearance in May before returning to Queensland to be demobilised. It is probably significant that Julius and the others on the ship were taken straight to a hospital.103)
A very faded and damaged photo of Julius Murray-Prior104):
Little is known about Julius' life immediately after the war. By 1927 he was living at Stanthorpe, perhaps on one of the notoriously inadequate soldier settler blocks there (to check). Calling himself Jules Murray-Prior, he was also trying to find work as a stage and screen 'character' actor: click here for his ad105)

Julius died, aged 47, in 1931, committing suicide by shooting himself in the head. Sadly, his end was not quick, as he died in Stanthorpe Hospital.106) He was then described as an orchardist at Broadwater, Stanthorpe.107) His Australian experiences and army service may provide one explanation for one informant's belief that he was an alcoholic and was often found drunk on his horse outside his home in the early hours of the morning.108) 109) His domestic and overseas war experiences could also be an explanation for his sad end. So too was the fact that 1931 was near the depth of the Great Depression. As an orchardist, Julius was unlikely to have been able to make a living at this time. It may be a factor too in his not marrying, if he had ever been so inclined, as he probably could not afford to support a wife and any children.

Julius left an estate of £2,492 - around $223,449 in 2017 values.110) In a will made 4 months before he died, Julius left land, presumably his orchard, worth £696 to Miss Mary Myrtle Macdonald, then living in Brisbane. She was also his sole executor of the will.111) Mary (1889-1958) never married.112)

Nora apparently suffered 'perineal tears and subsequent haemorrhage' during Julius' birth 113) but nevertheless, eight months later she conceived again and desperately, despairingly, sought to induce an abortion. With her earlier pregnancies, she had taken care not to miscarry, cancelling travel and postponing dental work.114) This time was very different. In a much-quoted passage, she wrote to Rosa: 'What will you say to me? How will you manifest your disgust? When I tell you that I am again sick, sorry and expecting … When it first began I resolved to try heroic remedies - so … had sixteen teeth taken out - but … I was much pulled down and very sick after it, but my prospects remain the same. What will become of all my little ones of whom the world stands in no need, how will they find niches & sure foothold for themselves amongst the many struggling ones who are each pushing for themself. There is certainly not room for them all to walk safely - some of them must go to the wall. No mother even bore children into the world with more foreboding than I do…'115) Fortunately for Nora, it was to be her last baby.

8. Ruth Angela (27 July 1885-15 August 1961).116) She was born and baptised at Kangaroo Point, Brisbane.117) As the youngest child, she was seven when her 73-year-old father died. When her mother chose a verse to describe her, probably in the 1890s, it was one from the poet Lowell, 'I know not how others see her/ but to me she is wholly fair.'118) From shortly before World War I, Ruth lived in England (mostly London) with her mother and her elder sister Dorothy. After Nora died, Ruth and Dorothy returned to Australia in 1931. The sisters spent the rest of their life at 'Drak', 17 Madeline Street, Hunters Hill.

In 1903 the 18-year-old Ruth wrote to her 'Dearest Old Mother' saying that she would like to be coached in mathematics, if Nora could afford it.119) If the coaching occurred and was for matriculation, it succeeded as she enrolled in the University of Sydney and graduated with a Bachelor of Arts in 1906. Her success meant that for three successive years she, her brother Robert (in 1905) and her sister Dorothy (1904) all graduated from that University with a BA.120) Ruth shared her mother's and her sister Dorothy's intellectual interests: in 1904 all three attended the Australasian Association for the Advancement of Science congress in New Zealand.121)

Ruth was the more radical and adventurous of her sisters and, by 1910, she supported women's suffrage and free trade.122) It was Ruth who pressured her mother and sister to travel overseas, to satisfy what she called her 'awful craving for foreign travel'. As it was, Ruth wrote to Rosa Praed in 1910, during the last year they had travelled around 4,000 miles but encountered nothing new: 'always to bump up against the same prosaic, money-making Anglo-Saxon race.'123) In England during World War I, she supported the war effort. She served with the Young Men's Christian Association in 1914. From around August 1915, she joined the Voluntary Aid Detachment (VAD). 124) In around March 1917, she helped run a YWCA canteen in France.125) While her loyalty to the British Empire was unquestioned, her experiences inflamed her Australian nationalism - a dual sentiment strongly shared by her mother's family and promoted by her cousin Andrew Barton (Banjo) Paterson s well as Australian nurses working in British hospitals and clearing stations.126).127) For more on Ruth's wartime experiences, click on Ruth during WWI.

Ruth had ambitions to write and was encouraged by Rosa to put her literary talent 'to profitable account'.128). However, Ruth found Rosa's criticisms dispiriting; she wrote that she was mortified not to see the defects before and will not try again to write a book.129) Her talent is evident in a light-hearted romantic short story she wrote with Rose Jardine130) called 'The Morse Code'. It was published in June 1910 in the prominent literary magazine Lone Hand - it can be viewed at The Morse Code. She had a close friendship with New Zealand writer Edith Lyttleton, who wrote under the pen-name of G.B. Lancaster. While they had both published in the Lone Hand, their friendship began in London during World War I. They bonded over literature, but another common factor was that they both sacrificed a great deal of their life to look after their mother. Lyttleton's ironic comment that she and Ruth should stop being so unselfish and 'Do Something that will keep us busy with remorse for the rest of our days' was impossible for either to contemplate seriously.131)
This 1929 sketch of Ruth, like the one of her sister Dorothy, is by her cousin Isabel Huntley.132)

In her old age, Ruth was remembered with love by children. A relative Gabrielle (Gay) Shannon recalled her as 'so sweet to children and always had time for me to show me the ducks and her cockatoo'.133) My memory of meeting her as a 9 year old was also someone who was very kind.134) Her death notice included the statement 'loving aunt of her nephews and nieces'135)

After Ruth died, 'Drak', the house she and her sister Dorothy had lived in at Hunters' Hill was bought by their brother Robert. Robert and his wife Stella lived there until they died. After Robert died, his son David joined his mother living at Drak. For a number of years, Helen Murray-Prior also lived there until her grandmother died.

Key Genealogical Sources: Bernard Burke, A Genealogical and Heraldic History of the Colonial Gentry, Melbourne: E.A. Petherick, 1891-95, p.50; Owen Lloyd, Jeremy Long and Barbara Dawson, Descendants of Robert Johnston Barton & Emily Mary Darvall, 1993; Robert M-P, The Blood Royal of the Murray-Priors, pp.18-19; Thomas Bertram M-P, Some Australasian Families Descended from Royalty, ms, n.d., pp. 15-18.


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Qld Births registration no. B16517
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‘Questions to be answered by T.L.M-P’, 6pp Memoranda by the Herald Office, Somerset House, London re Burke’s Colonial Gentry.
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M-P family papers, NLA MS 7801, folder 23, letter from Emily Heron to Nora M-P.
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Nora to Rosa, 3 May 1873
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Nora M-P to Rosa Praed, 3 May 1875, Praed papers QJO, box 4.
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John Thearle email to J. Godden, 16 October 1998.
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The online Qld marriage registration B17986 gives her name as Matilda Annie; Leader, 25 April 1896, p.30.
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M-P papers, NLA, MS 7801, Box 4, folder 23.
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Qld births registration B11948
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Leader 25 April 1896, p.30.
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Andrew Darbyshire, A Fair Slice of St Lucia. Thomas Lodge Murray-Prior, St Lucia History Group research paper no. 8, p.90.
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Nora to Rosa, 14 March 1883 and 1884, check exact date, JOQ
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Provenance: J. Godden
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M-P papers, NLA MS7801, folder 44
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M-P family papers, NLA, Box 4, folder 22.
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check
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Provenance: J. Godden. If anyone knows any of Meta's descendants, I'd be happy to return the ms to them. J.G.
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Qld Births registration no. B19267
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NSW Death registration 371/18760
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‘Questions to be answered by T.L.M-P’, 6pp Memoranda by the Herald Office, Somerset House, London re Burke’s Colonial Gentry. According to Jeremy Long, she was known as Elsie, Jeremy Long, letter to J. Godden, 21 June 2001, but the only references I've seen to a nickname is 'Emmie'.
21)
Nora M-P to Rosa Praed, 19 December 1874, M-P papers, JOQ, OM81-71.
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Nora M-P to Rosa Praed, 3 May 1875 and n.d.[late 1875?], Praed papers QJO, box 4.
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BDM, registration number 371/1876
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The death certificate gave diarrhoea as the secondary cause with 'congestion of the brain' as the primary cause - that is now a superseded diagnosis but it is possible that Emmeline also fell at some stage and had a brain haemorrhage.
26)
Nora M-P to Rosa Praed, 7 March 1875, 3 May 1875 and n.d.[late 1875?], [which date?] Praed papers QJO, box 4.
27)
Qld Births registration no. B21507. Her birth was registered in 1877.
28)
Legal opinion re Trusts of the Will of Thomas Lodge Murray Prior Decd, 11 June 1940, copy held by J. Godden; The Sydney Morning Herald, 3 January 1940, p.10.
30)
TLM-P, Diary, 5 August 1882, ML.
31)
1884, check exact date, JOQ
32)
Women's College, University of Sydney, Calendar, 1910, pp.13,20 and 1912, p.14.
34)
M-P papers, NLA, Box 7, folder 42.
35)
Lord Byron, Poems of Sentiment, George Harrup & Co.: London, n.d., provencance: J. Godden. Dorothy was 32 at the time, so the 'prize' reference reads as a joke between friends.
36)
Peter McDonald, Lado Ruzicka and Patricia Pine, ‘Marriage, fertility and Mortality’, in Australians. Historical Statistics, ed. W. Vamplew, Sydney: Fairfax, Syme & Weldon, 1987, p.42. Note that indigenous women were generally excluded from census counts at the time.
37) , 129)
M-P papers, NLA MS 7801, Box 4, folder 25.
38)
M-P papers, NLA MS 7801, Box 4, folder 26. check, or just Ruth?
39)
Dorothy M-P to “My very dear Aunt Cis' (Cecily Barton), 12 September 1916, reproduced on Gabrielle Shannon's, Max and Tony Barton WW1 Letters Home
40)
The Sun, 31 December 1931, p.3; Findmypast.co.uk, list of passengers leaving UK. They travelled on the steamship Ballarat ((passengersinhistory.sa.gov.au_sites_default_files_styles_feature_manual_public_imported_1516_0.jpg
41)
see will, Find my Past
42)
Qld Births registration no. B23578
44)
Florence M-P, to Florette M-P, 3 March 1898, provenance: Jill Fleming.
45)
The Sydney Mail and New South Wales Advertiser, 7 January 1903, p.61.
46) , 133)
Gabrielle Shannon, email to J. Godden, 28 August 2014.
47)
Nora M-P to Rosa Praed, 9 February 1879 or 27 July 1879, to check, JOQ, OM81-71
48)
Andrew Darbyshire, A Fair Slice of St Lucia. Thomas Lodge Murray-Prior, St Lucia History Group research paper no. 8, p.73.
49)
Robert M-P has 8th
50)
Qld Births registration no. B26002
52)
Nora to Rosa, 27 July 1879, Praed papers, QJO
53)
Nora to Rosa, 23 March 1880, Praed papers, QLO.
54)
Andrew Darbyshire, A Fair Slice of St Lucia. Thomas Lodge Murray-Prior, St Lucia History Group research paper no. 8, p.91n.
55)
M-P papers, NLA MS 7801, 12/96
56)
The Richmond River Express and Casino Kyogle Advertiser, 3 November 1905, p.6.
57)
New Zealand death certificate 1956/27163
58)
National Archives of New Zealand, Coroners Inquests Unnecessary - Case Files - Pryor, Frederick Maurice Murray (R23850983) 1956, R23850983, ACGS, 16231, J46, 1483/ CR1956/926
59)
Nora M-P to Rosa Praed, 1 April 1880, M-P papers, JOQ, OM81-71.
60)
Nora M-P to Rosa Praed, February 1881, M-P papers, JOQ, OM81-71.
61)
Nora M-P to Rosa Praed, Praed papers, 3 April 1881, QJO. Helen Woolcock, M.J. Thearle, Kay Saunders, ”'My Beloved Chloroform’. Attitudes to Childbearing in Colonial Queensland: A Case Study', Social History of Medicine, 10:3, December 1997, p.448. The authors note that 'Brisbane's early doctors had a reputation for freely prescribing and imbibing alcohol'.
62)
Nora M-P to Rosa Praed, Praed papers, 15 August [1881], QJO
63)
Qld Births registration no. B28103
64)
Sydney Morning Herald, 2 & 4 June 1962
65)
check TLM-P diary 2/9/89; TLM-P, ‘Questions to be answered by T.L.M-P’, 6pp Memoranda by the Herald Office, Somerset House, London re Burke’s Colonial Gentry; Nora M=_P to TLM-P, n.d [incorrectly catalogued as 1876 but internal evidence indicates in is August 1881], NLA MS7801, Box 4.
66)
Nora M-P to Rosa Praed, Praed papers, 3 April 1881, QJO
67)
Nora M-P to Rosa Praed, Praed papers, September 1888, QJO. For a discussion of her attitude towards pain relief in childbirth, see Helen Woolcock, M.J. Thearle, Kay Saunders, ”'My Beloved Chloroform’. Attitudes to Childbearing in Colonial Queensland: A Case Study', Social History of Medicine, 10:3, December 1997, pp. 437–457.
68)
Nora M-P to Rosa Praed, Praed papers, 12 September 1881, QJO.
69)
TLM-P, Diary, 2 September 1889
70)
Kay Ferres, ‘”I must dree my weird”: A colonial Correspondence’, Hecate, 31:2, 2005, pp.66.
72)
M-P papers, NLA MS 7801, 15/46
73)
Light Science for Leisure Hours by Richard Proctor. Provenance: J. Godden
74)
Provence: J. Godden.
75)
E.S.M-P, pers. comm. to J. Godden
76)
G.M-P, pers comm, 15 Sept 2020
77)
J. Boult,Hunter's Hill 1794-1938, sesqui-centenary celebrations Hunters Hill Council, 1938, pp.21,32.
78)
Provenance medal: J. Godden
79)
Gabrielle Shannon, email to J. Godden, 28 August 2014; pers. comm 14 May 2020.
80)
The Sydney Morning Herald, 25 April 1908, p.10 and death notice, 18 September 1968.
81)
Birth Certificate in possession of J. Godden.
82)
E.S.M-P, pers.comm to J. Godden.
83)
J.Godden to Natalie Prior, Town Clerk, Logan, 29 May 1988 re information provided by E.S. M-P.
84)
3 December 1883, OM 81-71 JOL
85) , 106)
Queensland death certificate, 1931 C4220
86)
probably a private hospital, given other births there. See, e.g., The Queenslander, 3 November 1883, p.727.
87)
Qld Births registration no. B32130
89)
TLM-P, Diary, 31 May 1882
90)
15 June 1884, JOL
91)
Nora M-P to Rosa Praed, 21 December 1884, Oxley Library.
92)
The Telegraph 9 December 1897, p.3.
93)
The Maitland Daily Mercury, 8 January 1909, p.6.
94)
The Cumberland Argus and Fruitgrowers Advocate, 1 May 1901, p.1.
95)
The Maitland Daily Mercury, 8 January 1909, p.6; National Advocate 9 January 1909, p.4.
96)
Cairns Morning Post, 1 Feb 1909, p.2.
97)
Chris Owen, 'Every mother's son is guilty': policing the Kimberley frontier of Western Australia 1882-1905, Crawley: UWA Publishing, 2016, pp.15,97, 104-05.
98) , 102)
M-P papers, NLA MS 7801, Box 4, folder 26.
101)
Examiner, 23 July 1915, p.7; ((Attestation papers, https://discoveringanzacs.naa.gov.au/browse/records/301101
103)
The Daily Mail, 10 November 1919, p.9.
104)
bromley Web Site
105)
see also Everyones, 6:389 (17 August 1927) p.65.
107)
The Brisbane Courier, 23 October 1931, p.12 and ?24 October 1931.
108)
Tom M-P, Pers. Comm., 2017, information from person selling the following sketch of Julius.
109)
Provenance: T.A. & M.T. M-P.
110)
The Courier-Mail, 18 July 1934, p.11.
111)
The Courier-Mail, 8 October 1934, p.2.
112)
Qld BDM, 1889/C/6525 & 1958/B/24758
113)
Katie Spearitt, 'The Sexual Economics of Colonial marriage' in Gail Reekie (ed) On the Edge. Women's experiences of Queensland', Univerisity of Queensland Press, 1994, p.71
114)
Nora to Rosa, 9 February 1879, OM 81-71.
115)
Nora M-P to Rosa Praed, 3 November, 21 December 1884, M-P papers, JOQ, OM81-71.
116)
Qld Births registration no. B34762; Sydney Morning Herald, 16 August 1961.
117)
Dorothy, Alienora and Ruth was all baptised at the Kangaroo Point Church of England by the Rev. D. A. Court, ‘Questions to be answered by T.L.M-P’, 6pp Memoranda by the Herald Office, Somerset House, London re Burke’s Colonial Gentry.
118)
M-P family papers, NLA, Box 7, folder 42.
119)
M-P family papers, NLA MS 7801, folder 22
120)
Alunmi Sidneienses, University of Sydney Archives, accessed 25 October 2003.
121)
Otago Daily Times, 7 January 1904, p.2; Evening Star, 5 January 1904, p.4.
122) , 127)
M-P family papers, NLA MS 7801, 17/25
123)
M-P family papers, NLA MS 7801, folder 25.
126)
M-P family papers, NLA MS 7801, 17/25; Kirsty Harris, 'Red Rag to a British Bull? Australian Trained Nurses working with British nurses during World war One' in Exploring the British World: Identity, Cultural Production, Institutions (eds) Kate Darian-Smith et al, Melbourne RMIT Publishing, 2004.
128)
M-P family papers, NLA, Box 1, folder 2, Rosa to Ruth, 20 April 1914
130)
Possibly no relation to her step-sister Lizzie's family.
131)
Terry Sturm, An Unsettled Spirit. The Life & Frontier Fiction of Edith Lyttleton (G.B. Lancaster), Auckland University Press, 2003, pp.231,268.
132)
Provenance: Phyllis Cullen-Ward to J. Godden.
134)
J. Godden.
135)
SMH August 1961
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