====== Robert and Estella M-P ======


===== Children =====
 
1. **Nora** Estella (1909((NSW birth registration 14986)) - 1984((SMH death notice, 5 May 1984))). Like her sisters, she went to school at {{https://www.sceggs.nsw.edu.au|SCEGGS}}. \\
She was active in youth groups including the Crusaders and the Brownies, the latter as a member and, when adult, leader. She trained as a nurse at Royal North Shore Hospital during 1936-37, reputedly too late to be accepted in general nurse training, but able to train as a children's nurse. She then worked at the War Memorial Hospital in Cas%%i%%no from September 1938 to March 1940. By 1944, she was a nursing Sister with the [[https://www.royalfarwest.org.au/|Royal Far West Society]], with her headquarters at Inverell.((Royal Far West Childrens Scheme, //Annual Report//, 1944)) The work involved much travelling around the local area for more, click on [[**nursing with Royal Far West**]].\\
The next three photos are of Nora((Provenance: J. Godden.)): the 1st with her elder brother E. Sterling M-P; the 2nd probably on the day she qualified as a nurse; the 3rd with her mother (right):\\

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Nora left the Royal Far West Children's Scheme early in 1949 to marry((Royal Far West Childrens Scheme, //Annual Report//, 1949)) widower Lawrence Ashley Frederick Boyd (known as Ashley). Nora was step-mother of Ashley's two daughters, but there were no children born of their marriage. He had a sheep/wheat property, Eldorado, near [[wp>Young,_New_South_Wales|Young, NSW]]. My recollection of her is someone who could be very kind but also very tactless, while her extensive travelling in later life did not change her narrow view of the world.\\

 2. Edgar **Sterling** (16 May 1911 - --- 2010((SMH death notice, 25 February 2010.))) \\
He never forgave his parents for their choice of his given names, but chose to be known Sterling as the lesser of two evils. He attended [[http://www.sydgram.nsw.edu.au|Sydney Grammar]] until he was around 15, when his father found him work at the Perpetual Trustee Company. He was later to deprecate his schooling as being so hidebound with its stress on unthinking obedience (such as the poems [[wp>Charge_of_the_Light_Brigade|The Charge of the Light Brigade]] and [[wp>Casabianca_(poem)]]). He was, however, good at mathematics with a prize to show for it in 1924 when he was 13 years old. That talent would stand him in good stead not only in his work, but as honorary treasurer of the Bellingen RSL Club in his later life.((the mathematics prize was a book, //The Fifteen Decisive Battles of the World// by Edward Creasy - inevitably, as with other book prizes, it appears largely unread.)) He was a keen sportsman, a member of the Mona Vale Surf Life saving Club and a good amateur boxer. A photo in the Ryde Library of the 1932 Hunters Hill Rugby team describes him (middle row, second from left) as its Honorary secretary. To see click [[http://library.ryde.nsw.gov.au/lsphotos/350245.jpg|rugby]].\\
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He married Brenda Isabel Pottie (15 July 1914-18 July 2008((SMH death notice, 23 July 2008.)) at St Stephen's Presbyterian Church on 29 November 1938. Brenda (known also as Isabel and Isa) had grown up at Waverley, attending the once-progressive school Shirley then, for her final year/s, SCEGGS. Before her marriage, she lived with her mother at 6 Viret Street, Hunters Hill. Brenda's father Herbert (Bert), a vet, had died when she was a toddler. He left his widow Ethel (known by her second name, Brenda) with five young children (Brenda and her four older brothers). Bert's father John Pottie had established the veterinary practice and published two books on the care of horses, then the mainstay of veterinary practices.((http://adb.anu.edu.au/biography/pottie-john-4409)) Bert's mother Eliza Pottie was a Quaker, temperance advocate and highly active philanthropist who took a leading role in the fight for women's suffrage.(({{http://adb.anu.edu.au/biography/pottie-eliza-13155}})) Brenda's mother found it difficult to adjust to the financial implications of her husband's death, and continued with much the same style of living. After the younger Brenda left school, she became a highly skilled typist in the NSW Tax Office [check].\\
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{{:mum_and_molly.jpg?200|}}Photo: Brenda M-P on her wedding day with her bridesmaid and sister-in-law Molly M-P.((Provenance: J. Godden. The dress was a beautiful silk, painted with delicate flowers.))\\
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Sterling and Brenda's only son was born 10 months after they married (luckily at this censorious time, he was not premature like their next child!). A month after his birth, World War II started. Sterling enlisted on 11 July 1940((https://recordsearch.naa.gov.au/SearchNRetrieve/Interface/ViewImage.aspx?B=4640026)) and served as a Gunner((https://www.army.gov.au/our-people/australian-army-rank-structure/other-ranks)) in the [[wp>2/9th_Field_Regiment_(Australia)|2/9 Field Regiment]].((http://www.ww2roll.gov.au/Veteran.aspx?ServiceId=A&VeteranId=175805. For a history of the Regiment, see http://digital.slv.vic.gov.au/view/action/singleViewer.do?dvs=1507941719870~632&locale=en_GB&metadata_object_ratio=10&show_metadata=true&VIEWER_URL=/view/action/singleViewer.do?&preferred_usage_type=VIEW_MAIN&DELIVERY_RULE_ID=10&frameId=1&usePid1=true&usePid2=true)) He served in the Middle East for over a year, as well as in South Australia and North Queensland. As far as is known, he did not see his wife or son again until 1945.\\
{{:slide_16_esmp_uniform.jpg?250|}} ES M-P shortly after he enlisted, c.1940 ((Provenance: J. Godden))\\
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Sterling had thrived amidst mates from very different backgrounds and in highly physical work, and returned a very different man. With the war's end, he was discharged from the army on 6 November 1945.((Certificate of Discharge, provenance J. Godden)) He was re-employed at Perpetual but found being confined to a desk job difficult. On the advice of his brother-in-law, he used almost all of his and his wife's money to buy a dairy farm from a relative of his brother-in-law's wife. The date of the purchase could later be seen as prophetic: 1 April 1949.((ESM-P,letter to tax office, 1956. Provenance E.S. M-P to J. Godden.)) The farm was at Hydes Creek, four miles from [[wp>Bellingen,_New_South_Wales|Bellingen]]. Sterling, Brenda, their son and daughter moved there; a second daughter was born nearly two  years later. The farm was never a viable proposition, despite the efforts of agricultural researchers to find alternative crops, and became less so with the inexorable decline of the North Coast dairy industry. While he thrived on the outdoor life and went from total inexperience to a highly respected farmer, Sterling's big achievement was to wrest a minimal living from infertile land. He only once, in the late 1960s, accepted a desk job to tide the family over a specially bad drought. His wife and son had a particularly challenging time due to their huge decline in living conditions: Hydes Creek had no electricity until 1962; the roads were untarred; and when he entered High School their son had to undertake a long commute to Coffs Harbour High School, involving bike, bus and train. Dairy cows need to be milked twice a day and the family could not afford any help; in later years Sterling made a yearly trip to Sydney to see his widowed mother, but Brenda rarely had a day away from the farm. Even when bitten by a red-back spider, she had to drive herself to Bellingen Hospital while the rest of the family did the milking.\\
{{:hydes_creek_farm.jpg?400|}} Photo of the M-P farm published in G. Wilson, F. Cradock, K. Flemons, 'Pasture and Soil Fertiity Investigations in the Bellingen District', //The Agricultural Gazette//, May 1961, p.244. The article reported one of the numerous crop trials at the farm. The farm now looks completely different - the house has been moved to a sub-division at the Bellingen end of the old property; the reedy creek has been dammed; and new buildings added. Returning to look at a site can be very misleading! (see google maps for 423 Hydes Creek Road.)\\
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Brenda and Sterling benefited from family legacies as well as the local area being transformed by 'tree-changers' and the Australian Paper Manufacturers (APM, now Amcor). After they sold the farm, the local creek made into a dam, with the land apparently used as a hobby farm, the area looks idyllic and, to those who grew up there, unrecognisable. Brenda and Sterling enjoyed a comfortable retirement at 5 Hawea Close,[[wp>Wamberal,_New_South_Wales|Wamberal]] on the NSW Central Coast. Molly and John Wilson later moved to Wamberal in their retirement as well.\\
Sterling and Brenda M-P celebrating their 50th? wedding anniversary.((Provenance: J. Godden.)). {{:sterling_and_brenda_668_.jpg?250|}}

3. **Phyllis** Dorothea (1913 ---) was born at home, at Cooroora in Hunters Hill.(( //The Sydney Morning Herald//, 16 December 1913, p.8.)) She was artistic, vivacious and, like so many of her era and her elder sister, retained the socially conservative views of her youth. She married grazier Alan Robert Cullen-Ward on 23 February 1935. He had a property 'Mani' at Cumnock, NSW as well as a house at [[wp>Drummoyne,_New_South_Wales|Drummoyne]] in Sydney. They had two sons and three daughters including [[wp>Susan_of_Albania|Susan]] who married (secondly) [[wp>Leka_I,_Crown_Prince_of_Albania|King Leka of the Albanians]].\\

4. Evan **David** (1916((Birth registration no. 35738/1916))- March 1981). With his parents' help, he bought a farm at Wyong ((Late ESM-P. pers. comm; //SMH//, 15 October 1938, p.10)) and married Hilary Lorraine Piper (31 July 1916- 23 June 2014); the farm was sold after they divorced. They had two daughters. One daughter Beverley Joan (known as Joan) was [occupation?] and later in life struggled with  deafness; she married --- Black and lived in Tasmania. David and Hilary's other daughter became a highly respected midwife at King George V Hospital and, in retirement, an Anglican chaplain at St George Hospital. In later life, David shared a house with his mother at Hunters Hill until she died. In his final years he was reclusive; in contrast Hilary remained a 'people person'.\\
Three photos of David((Provenance: J. Godden)): The latter two were taken at Brecondale, his (Herring) grandparents' home at Gladesville in Sydney. {{:david_m-p.jpg?200|}} {{:david_mp_two.jpg?300|}} 

5. Sylvia Mary (**Molly**) (1919-2007((Ryde Weekly Times, death notice, 12 December 2007))) joined the WRANs (Women's Royal Air Force) in 1942, during World War II. The following photo((Provenance: Australian War Memorial)) was taken c.1939 when she was a member of the Women's Emergency Signalling Corp, which trained signallers and telephonists.{{https://s3-ap-southeast-2.amazonaws.com/awm-media/collection/P01262.020/screen/3976562.JPG}} Molly's service record reveals that she was a 'telegraphist'.((https://recordsearch.naa.gov.au/SearchNRetrieve/Gallery151/dist/JGalleryViewer.aspx?B=4530612&S=1&N=2&R=0#/SearchNRetrieve/NAAMedia/ShowImage.aspx?B=4530612&T=P&S=1)) On 23 September 1950, she married John Alexander Wilson who co-owned (with his sister) a property at Norway, via Oberon. They had 1 daughter and 2 sons.\\