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====== Matilda Murray-Prior nee Harpur ======

Matilda (1827-68) was TLM-P's first wife and the second daughter of Thomas Harpur of Cecil Hills near Liverpool (now western Sydney).\\
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{{:matilda_enhanced.jpeg?300|}} The only known photo of Matilda.((Provenance: Photo postcard from Queensland Women's Historical Association, T.A. & T. M-P))\\
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Matilda's family came from a Northern Ireland. She was born 'in the parish of Desertcreat, near Tullyhogue, south of Cookstown, a Protestant plantation town in the northern Irish county of Tyrone.' Her mother, Rose or Rosa (nee Adams) died in 1835 when she was 32 years old.((Patrica Clarke, //Rosa! Rosa!//pp.9,23; Matilda M-P, Queensland Death Certificate, Registration B4732)) In after years, little was known about her: TLM-P stated 'unknown', when required to give her Christian name on his wife's death certificate (see below).((Matilda M-P, Queensland Death Certificate, Registration B4732)) Another son-in-law gave her name as Rose though Patricia Clarke thought it was Rosa.((Elizabeth Barker, Queensland Death Certificate 1900, Registration B465; Patricia Clarke, 'Rosa Praed's Irish Connections', //The Australian Journal of Irish Studies//, vol. 1, 2001, p.119.)) After the death of Matilda's mother, Patricia Clarke states that the family moved to Dublin. There Matilda's father married Mary Jane Speer, whose father was a Dublin solicitor.((Patricia Clarke, 'Rosa Praed's Irish Connections', //The Australian Journal of Irish Studies//, vol. 1, 2001, p.119.)) Before they emigrated, Matilda and her family gave their address as Lime Park, {{wiki>County_Tyrone|County Tyrone}} (the place she also gave as her birthplace on her son Redmond's birth certificate) and College-square North, {{wiki>Belfast|Belfast}}.To emigrate, they travelled to the English port of Plymouth and, on 24 June 1840, left aboard the newly built {{wp>Barque|barque}} the //Lord Western// under Captain Lock.((http://www.aberdeenships.com/single.asp?offset=1660&index=100024)) The journey took over three months, with them arriving in Sydney on 5 October 1840, a year after Matilda's future husband.\\
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The //Lord Western's// passenger list((https://jenwilletts.com/searchaction.php?page=1&surname=&ship=lord%20western&firstname=)) reveals that the Harpurs sailed with 233 'bounty emigrants', that is, people who emigrated with the assistance of money from the Colonial Government. The Harpurs, like TLM-P, were 'cabin passengers', paying their own way in superior accommodation. As well as 'Miss Matilda Harpur' and her father and step-mother 'Mr. and Mrs. Harpur', there was an elder and younger brother along with two sisters: 15 year-old Thomas Harpur,((In her memoir //My Australian Girlhood//(1902, p.40.), Rosa claims that Thomas's wildness led him to be 'wrecked and murdered' in the Pacific when he was 20 years old. Other sources are more pragmatic: he died aged 23 when a purser on board a ship which was wrecked on [[wp>Eromanga|Eromanga]] in Vanuatu, //Sydney Morning Herald//, 31 July 1848, p.3.)); Miss E[lizabeth] Harpur((She married William Barker in 1847, //The Australian//, 29 July 1847, p.2)); Miss Rosa Harpur((she married Charles Robert Haly of Lachinga, Burnett District,  //Sydney Morning Herald//, 21 September 1853, p.8.)) and 9-year-old Master A.H. Harpur.((the latter died aged 58 on Kangaroo Island in 1889,//South Australian Register//, 11 September 1889, p.4. The other listed passengers were Dr Robert Little, M.D. and his unnamed wife; Mrs Hollinworth, Miss Hollinworth, Miss M. A. Hollinworth, Miss C. Hollinworth and Master Hollinworth; Mr Blondel; Mr and Mrs Owen and their unnamed child; Mr and Mrs Martyr; Mr and Mrs Lewellyn; Mr J. Smyth; Mr Coley; and Mr and Mrs Newman and their unnamed daughter.))\\
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Thomas Harpur first tried farming on the Parramatta River, then moved his family to [[wp>Cecil_Hills,_New_South_Wales|Cecil Hills]], north-west of Liverpool.((Patricia Clarke, 'Rosa Praed's Irish Connections', //The Australian Journal of Irish Studies//, vol. 1, 2001, p.119.)) His and Mary Jane Harpur's daughter Emily Anne was born in 1843.((//Sydney Morning Herald//, 15 June 1846, p.3; //The Brisbane Courier//, 17 September 1868, p.2; NSW BDM, 3295/1843 V18433295 27A.)) The birth notice inserted in the paper gives scant recognition to Mary Jane: it simply states that 'On the 4th instant, the Lady of Thomas Harpur, Esq., of Cecil Hills, of a daughter'.((//Sydney Morning Herald//, 6 September 1843, p.3.)) Like her step-sisters Matilda and Elizabeth, Emily married and lived in Queensland.((//The Brisbane Courier//, 17 Sep 1868, p.2.)) Matilda's step-mother, described as Mary Jane Harpur nee Speer, the widow of Thomas Harpur late of Cecil Hills, died in London in 1887. Only one offspring was mentioned: Richard Harpur of Barmundoo, Gladstone.((//The Brisbane Courier//, 14 January 1887, p.4; Another Mary Jane Harpur, possibly a daughter, died in Sydney in 1899 - NSW Death notices,2269/1899))\\
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Thomas Harpur was not a success in the new colony. His granddaughter Rosa Praed was an imaginative novelist rather than reliable biographer but she did have her mother's letters when she wrote about her. Rosa considered that Thomas Harpur was unsuited to the life of a colonial bushman. Rosa quoted Matilda writing to her fiancée bemoaning that their property was plagued by drought and bushfire while "Papa, while his bush is burning and his beasts are perishing, sits in the little parlour writing poetry... He is now writing a piece on Life which is very pretty, but mama does not like his confining himself so much to the little parlour, for besides injuring his health, poetry also makes him neglect the station. But papa, she mournfully adds, was never cut out to be a bushman; he is much fonder of writing poetry than of riding after cattle."((Rosa Campbell Praed, //My Australian Girlhood//, London: T. Fisher Unwin, 1902, pp.39-40.)) Thomas Harpur's poetry appeared in a Sydney Weekly called //Atlas// under his pseudonyms 'Harmonides' and 'Cecil Hills', and in 1847 his major epic poem, //A Land Redeemed//, was published.((Patricia Clarke, 'Rosa Praed's Irish Connections', //The Australian Journal of Irish Studies//, vol. 1, 2001, p.119.))\\
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Presumably because of his neglect of his property in favour of poetry, by May 1844 Thomas Harpur was bankrupt. He even had to hand over his clothes to his creditors.((//Government Gazette//, 14 May 1844 [Issue No.45] Private Notices, p.687.)) In 1846, in a flowery letter defending himself against the charge of providing 'sly grog' (home-made alcohol) and noting he was acquitted of the charge, he described himself as a 'farmer'.((//Sydney Morning Herald//, 15 June 1846, p.3.)) He, his wife, and two younger children had a lucky escape that year: the house caught on fire and when fighting it, a large chest was dragged out of the house, then was discovered to contain gunpowder. Thomas Harpur had brought it out 'from home', and forgotten about it! It does not suggest the kind of practical man who thrived in the colonies. The account of the 1846 fire mentions only two of his younger children, suggesting that the others had all left home.((//Sydney Morning Herald//, 12 June 1846, p.3.)) Thomas Harpur was still living at Cecil Hills in 1847.((//Sydney Morning Herald//, 12 April 1847, p.2.)) He died in 1848, aged 51.((//Sydney Morning Herald//, 27 October 1848, p.4; //The Maitland Mercury and Hunter River General Advertiser//, 1 November 1848, p.3.))\\
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Given her father's love of poetry and lack of desire to tackle alternative employment, it is understandable that numerous writers have assumed that Thomas was the brother of the prominent colonial poet, Charles Harpur. Additionally, Matilda also was a talented writer, though her talent was used mainly used to educate her children to appreciate English literature and history. Charles Harpur, like Matilda, was also to die of tuberculosis.((http://www.middlemiss.org/matilda/2009/10/reprint-obituary-the-late-mr-charles-harpur.html)) However, a shared surname appears the only traceable family connection.((Patricia Clarke, 'Rosa Praed's Irish Connections', //The Australian Journal of Irish Studies//, vol. 1, 2001, p.119; Patricia Clarke, The //Other// Harpur, Or, How I stumbled across an unknown Colonial Poet', //National Library of Australia News// Vol. 8, no. 6, March 1889, pp.18-21.)) None who assert that Charles and Thomas Harpur were brothers have provided any evidence of the supposed relationship. Thomas Harpur was born in Ireland in 1797, migrating to Australia in 1840. Charles Harpur was born in Australia in 1813; his parents were both convicts and married in 1814. Charles' father, who had been a school master, was transported for highway robbery in 1800.(({{https://adb.anu.edu.au/biography/harpur-charles-2158}}:__ BROKEN-LINK:[[https://australianroyalty.net.au/individual.php?pid=I52597&ged=purnellmccord.ged]]LINK-BROKEN__ [[https://www.geni.com/people/Joseph-Harpur-Convict-Royal-Admiral-1800/6000000006583612112]]))\\
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What little we know about Matilda is all positive. Her daughter Rosa recalled her as 'a wise woman and most tenderly sympathetic'.((Patricia Clarke, 'Rosa Praed's Irish Connections', //The Australian Journal of Irish Studies//, vol. 1, 2001, p.120 citing Rosa "My Literary Beginnings', Praed papers 2/29/1.)) One piece of evidence tells us more about her: a book that belonged to her, with her name, address and a dedication as seen below ('Miss Matilda Harpur as a very slight expression of my estimation of her superior moral & intellectual qualifications & scientific attainments.'). The book was the //Companion to the Bible. Intended for Bible Classes, Families, and Young Persons in General//, published by the [[wp>Religious_Tract_Society|Religious Tract Society]].((Provenance: J. Godden to T.A. & M.T. M-P)) It confirms that the Harpurs were Protestant with evangelical leanings, and that they lived in College Square, Belfast. It also provides evidence that Matilda Harpur was considered exceptionally bright.\\

{{:whewell_dedication_enhanced.jpg?300|}}   {{:matilda_dedication.jpg?300|}} Title page and dedication of the book presented to Matilda Harpur.\\ 

The (teacher's?) initials may be 'A.F. Fr.' and it is dated Belfast 26 July 1839. The book is typical of its era in its presentation of science as evidence of God's creation. It is hardly light reading, especially for a 12-year-old! Its excellent condition may be because it was treasured - but equally probably, because it was little read.\\ 

If Matilda had been a boy, what use would she have put her scientific and intellectual ability? As it was, the following year she migrated to Australia and 6 years later, on 3 September 1846, aged 18, married 26-year-old TLM-P at St. Mary Magdalene Church of England, South Creek, Cecil Hills.((BDM, marriage registration number 287/1846 V1846287 31C; The notice of marriage appeared in the //Freeman's Journal//, Dublin, 19 February 1847. South Creek was near the modern western Sydney suburb of St Mary's.((Patricia Clarke, The Murray-Priors at Bromelton 1844-1853 in Patricia Savage (compiled), //They came to Bromelton: a brief outline of the life and times of the early pioneers who came to Bromelton - from the pages of history, personal diaries, old letters and family recollections//, Patricia Savage, 2004, p.19.))\\
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{{:marriage_cert_matilda.jpeg?300|}}((Provenance: T.A. & M.T. M-P))\\
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It appears that Matilda and TLM-P had been writing to each other since the year after she arrived in the colony, that is, from the time she was 13 or 14 years old.((Patricia Clarke, The Murray-Priors at Bromelton 1844-1853 in Patricia Savage (compiled), //They came to Bromelton: a brief outline of the life and times of the early pioneers who came to Bromleton - from the pages of history, personal diaries, old letters and family recollections//, Patricia Savage, 2004, p.18.)) While the letters allowed some familiarity, TLM-Ps efforts to establish himself in the north allowed little opportunity for visits. It also meant anxiety and long silences. Rosa Praed states that one of Matilda's letters took over five months to reach TLM-P, 'and then only through his chance meeting with the person who had bought in north, when Murray-Prior was delivering a mob of bullocks to the butcher in Brisbane.' There was reason for anxiety though one of Matilda's comments suggest that her fears were based on sensationalism rather than the more prosaic reality of Aboriginal people defending their land (but not being cannibals), or the ever-present danger of accidents and illness far from help. According to Rosa, Matilda wrote in her letter that, 'I am indeed thankful to know by the sight of your handwriting at last that you have not been murdered by bushrangers or eaten by Blacks.'((Patricia Clarke, The Murray-Priors at Bromelton 1844-1853 in Patricia Savage (compiled), //They came to Bromelton: a brief outline of the life and times of the early pioneers who came to Bromleton - from the pages of history, personal diaries, old letters and family recollections//, Patricia Savage, 2004, p.18.)) Another time, again according to Rosa, TLM-P complained about her restraint (quite understandable if her father or step-mother read her letters, as was conventional at the time). Matilda asked 'Have I not given you the best proof of my affection and confidence in consenting to share your fortunes?'((Patricia Clarke, The Murray-Priors at Bromelton 1844-1853 in Patricia Savage (compiled), //They came to Bromelton: a brief outline of the life and times of the early pioneers who came to Bromleton - from the pages of history, personal diaries, old letters and family recollections//, Patricia Savage, 2004, p.19.)) For a ardent young man angling for a declaration of passion, it was a dampening reply.\\
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===== Death ====
Much to the grief of her children, Matilda died of consumption (tuberculosis)((Patricia Clarke, //Rosa! Rosa!// p.24.)) when she was 41 years old at their home 'Montpelier' at [[wp>Kangaroo_Point,_Queensland|Kangaroo Point, Brisbane]] on 25 November 1868 and was buried in Brisbane Cemetery. She was not alone in suffering from tuberculosis in this pre-vaccination era: in Queensland it was the 'largest single killer of working adults throughout the colonial period', though Pacific Islanders were particularly susceptible. As well, at the time Queensland had a higher death rate from the disease than England.((Kay Saunders and Katie Spearritt, 'Is there life after birth? Childbirth, death and danger for settler women in colonial Queensland', //Journal of Australian Studies//, 29, June 1991, pp.64-79; Bernard Burke, //A Genealogical and Heraldic History of the Colonial Gentry//, Melbourne: E.A. Petherick, 1891-95, p.49; TLM-P, genealogical notes in John & John B. Burke, //A Genealogical and Heraldic Dictionary of the Landed Gentry of Great Britain & Ireland: M to Z//, London: Henry Colburn Publisher, 1846; Thomas Bertram M-P, //Some Australasian Families Descended from Royalty//, ms, n.d., p.7, NLA; {{http://www.cotyroneireland.com/bornburied/australia3.html|Len Swindley, Born Co. Tyrone, Ireland, Married & Died in the Colony of New South Wales, Australia 1837-1879}})) Matilda's death certificate indicates that the diagnosis was made two years before she died, shortly after the birth of her last child, Egerton.((Matilda M-P, Queensland Death Certificate, Registration B4732)) TLM-P's diary indicates that he was concerned enough about her health in 23 September 1864 to consider taking leave of absence from his employment as Postmaster-General.((Andrew Darbyshire, A Fair Slice of St Lucia. Thomas Lodge Murray-Prior, St Lucia History Group research paper no. 8,p.36)) Another possible indication of prolonged ill-health are the cheques to pay chemist bills in 1866-67 e.g. in June 1866 Mr W.J. Page Chemist was paid £3.16.6 and in June 1867 £5.7.3. As well there is a note in September 1867 regarding a cheque for £3.11.0 to Dr Hugh Bell that TLM-P thought had been paid previously. In March 1868, Dr Handcock was paid with a cheque for £10.8.6, suggesting numerous visits.((MLMSS3117/Box 9, list of cheques.))\\
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Grief at her loss lingered. In 1882 her widower visited Lady Bowen, the wife of the first Governor of Queensland: she 'had tears in her eyes naming Matilda. She [Matilda] was so good, so kind she had never met a more unselfish woman'. Lady Bowen shook her head at the news TLM-P had remarried 'and still more when in reply I told her I had more children'.((TLM-P, Diary, 18 July 1882, ML)) TLM-P's list of cheques indicates that the regard was mutual as in October 1867 both Matilda and Rosa paid for a testimonial to Lady Bowen, respectively costing £3.3.0 and £1.((MLMSS3117/Box 9))\\
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==== Family circle ====
Matilda's sisters Rosa and Elizabeth Harpur visited her after her marriage and they too married Queensland squatters. These relatives were especially important given the small (white) settler population - Queensland only had around 30,000 settlers in 1861, and about two-thirds were men.((D. Waterson and M. French, //From the Frontier. A Pictorial History of Queensland to 1920//, St Lucia: University of Queensland Press, 1987, pp.3,8.))  Elizabeth Harpur married William Barker of //Tamrookum// station on 8 July 1847: TLM-P was one of the witnesses.((Elizabeth Harpur, Queensland marriage certificate, 1847, BM54.)) They had six sons and two daughters.((Brisbane paper, //The Week//, 13 July 1900, p.17.)) In the late 1860s, the well-known poet and novelist, [[http://adb.anu.edu.au/biography/stephens-james-brunton-4642|James Brunton Stephens]], was employed as their tutor at //Tamrookum//. TLM-P's ledger for Bugrooperia indicates that he had business dealings with William Barker and //Tamrookum//((MLMSS3117, box 6/item 5)). A Hawkwood ledger c.1856 lists 'Mr J. B. Stephens' buying stores including books costing £4.5.6.(MLMSS3117, box7X, p.44))\\
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Six years later, on 3 September 1853, Rosa Harpur married [[http://adb.anu.edu.au/biography/haly-charles-robert-3699|Charles Robert Haly (1816-92)]]. Again TLM-P was one of the witnesses who signed the marriage register.((Queensland Marriage registration, 1854/BMA/41)) Rosa and Charles Haly lived at //Taabinga// Station in the Burnett district until he was forced to sell it due to 'diseases in his sheep and the rapid spread of speargrass'. In 1882 he became police magistrate at Dalby where, from 1891, he was also clerk of Petty Sessions. He died the following year, reportedly survived by 11 of his 14 children.(([[http://adb.anu.edu.au/biography/haly-charles-robert-3699]] I can only find 9 children under the Queensland birth registrations. See also Elizabeth Caffery & George Groves, //The Gathering of the Waters. A short history of the Nanango Shire//,Nanango Shire Council, 2007; Rosa Harpur, Queensland marriage certificate, 1854, BM227.)) In 1881, Nora M-P considered possible people who could help her stepdaughter Lizzie look after the children at //Maroon// while Nora had her baby in Brisbane. She mentioned Rosie Haly as a possibility, 'in default of anyone more interesting'.((Nora M-P to Rosa Praed, Praed papers, 3 April 1881, QJO)) Rosa Jane (Rosie) Haly was then 19 years old.((born 09/09/1861, Registration details: 1861/C/342. She died in 1905.)) In 1882 TLM-P visited Captain O. G. Haly when he saw the name on an office in the army's Intelligence office, where he was visiting one of his second wife's relatives. Captain Haly had been close to Charles Haly's brother William. The brothers had migrated together to Queensland, with Captain Haly commenting that 'all the sons of the family are in Australia'.((TLM-P, Diary 18 July 1882)).\\
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The three Harpur sisters and their families were close, and the small European population promoted everyday interactions.((Introduction to Praed papers, JOLQ, p.5.)) TLM-P's diaries indicate that the relationship between the families remained close after Matilda died and he remarried. TLM-P also had business dealings with his brother-in-law Charles Haly including lending him money to mortgage land.((HALY, Charles Robert (Mortgagor) and PRIOR, Thomas Lodge Murray (Mortgagee), 21-30 October 1863, Queensland archives, ID ITM1959373)) A note in TLM-P's 1864 diary refers to him paying interest, and that TLM-P offered to sell him some land.((TLM-P, diary, 17 May 1864.)) As well, Haly also occupied TLM-P's property //Creallagh// in 1863. TLM-P's ledger entry for 5 May 1867 has a heading Chas R. Haly Esq and the explanation that 33 acres of land at Indooroopilly occupied by Mr Pitman had been originally sold to A. V. Drury Esq. then the mortgage transferred to (his brother) Ed. Drury (the sons of TLM-P childhood teacher in Brussels, the Rev. William Drury) and afterwards to C.R. Haly. TLM-P paid £330 and three interest payments at 10 per cent. By January 1868 he had paid the capital and interest totally £360.14.9. ((Ledger, MLMSS CHECK WHICH BOX ETC)) \\
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Another witness to Charles Haly and Rosa Harpur's marriage was Charles' brother William O'Grady Haly. ((Queensland B,D & M, 1866 registration number C153.)) He also illustrates the close-knit nature of Queensland society. 'Mr O'Grady Haly' had been superintendent at //Maroon// to an earlier owner of that property.((Angela Collyer, The Process of Settlement. Land Occupation and Usage in Boonah 1842-1870s, MA (Local History), University of Queensland, 1991, p.63.)) When he (or a namesake died), TLM-P was a co-trustee/executor.((//The Courier//, 10 August 1861, p.1; A collection of Newfoundland Wills, entry for William O'Grady Haly, probate 1906.)) Similarly, the small circles in which they moved is illustrated by the experience of Matilda's other sister Elizabeth. When her husband William Barker retired from //Tamrookum//, they purchased //Nunnington//, a house at Kangaroo Point, Brisbane. It was sold to them by Frederick Orme Darvell, then Registrar-General of Queensland, and Nora M-P's uncle. [[wp>Nunnington|Nunnington]] was named what the Darvalls believed to be a family home in Yorkshire.((Brisbane paper, //The Week//, 13 July 1900, p.17.))\\
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Evidence of the literary bent of Matilda and her children survive in few copies of a hand-written family magazine that they produced at Maroon and called Maroon Magazine. The children's cousins, the Barkers, and James Brunton Stephens also contributed.((Patrica Clarke, //Rosa! Rosa!//p.23.)) Three issues are in Rosa Praed's papers in the John Oxley Library. **For more click on [[**Magazine**]]**. In the early years at Maroon, the family's literary activities were likely to have been briefly enhanced by the appointment of a new manager on 3 July 1865((TLM-P, diary entry.)) of {{http://adb.anu.edu.au/biography/traill-william-henry-4744|William Traill}}. It appears, however, that he only lasted three months as he kept selling the prime steers.((J. Godden undated note re discussion with Prof Duncan Waterson)) He later become a well-known journalist.\\
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European women living in what is now Queensland had a higher number of children than their sisters in the south, a phenomenon that was strongly supported by TLM-P and other politicians, 'spurred by fears of being engulfed, both numerically and culturally by foreign invaders'.((Kay Saunders and Katie Spearritt, 'Is there life after birth? Childbirth, death and danger for settler women in colonial Queensland', //Journal of Australian Studies//, 29, June 1991, pp.64-79.)) Matilda was exemplary in this regard: she had 12 children during her 22 years of marriage. It is likely that her fecundity contributed to her early death aged 41. Additionally, each time she gave birth there was a real possibility of dying in the process: in 1878, for example, a pregnant woman in Queensland had 'one chance in 21 of dying in childbirth'.((Kay Saunders and Katie Spearritt, 'Is there life after birth? Childbirth, death and danger for settler women in colonial Queensland', //Journal of Australian Studies//, 29, June 1991, pp.64-79. Note that Aboriginal women were generally excluded from the statistics, though John Theale has argued that traditional Aboriginal maternal mortality was low.)) In addition, Queensland's death rate was higher than that of other Australian colonies.((D. Waterson and M. French, //From the Frontier. A Pictorial History of Queensland to 1920//, St Lucia: University of Queensland Pr
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===== Matilda and TLMP's Children =====
Matilda had her children when her husband was struggling to establish himself. They were not wealthy at this stage and, at least for her first six births, she endured the rough isolation that characterised the life of women settlers in rural Queensland at the time. Repeated childbearing - in this age when abstinence was the only effective contraception - undermined her health. Matilda had 12 children during 1848-66. One way of looking at this is that she was pregnant for exactly half those 18 years, during which time she also raised eight and buried four of her children. It did not make it any easier that having four of her children die before her was statistically normal. Even in Victoria in the 1880s and 1890s, where health outcomes where better, by the time a married woman was 50 years old, typically 'about one-quarter of her children would have died'.((Peter McDonald and Patricia Quiggin, 'Lifecourse transitions in Victoria in the 1880s', //Families in Colonial Australia// ed. P. Grimshaw, C. McConville and Ellen McEwen, Sydney: George Allen & Unwin, 1985, p.77.)) It is also possible that she was pregnant at other times as we don't know if she had any miscarriages or stillbirths (stillbirths were not registered in the 19th century).\\
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For Matilda, the toil of repeated pregnancies was eventually combined with tuberculosis. The result was tragic for all concerned. The last stages of tuberculosis leaves little doubt that the sufferer is dying, so Matilda would have known she was leaving behind motherless children. When she eventually succumbed, her 8 surviving children ranged in age from 20 to 2 years old. They were:\\
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 1. **Thomas de Montmorenci** 27 January 1848-11 December 1902.((Qld Death registration C1918.))\\

 2. **William** Augustus, 8 August 1849 - 17 January 1850\\

 3. **Rosa** Caroline, 27 March 1851((Qld Births registration no. BBP473; her birth was not registered until her sister was born in 1854)) - 2 April 1935 

 4. **Morres**, 15((TLM-P has 16th, TLM-P, genealogical notes in John & John B. Burke, //A Genealogical and Heraldic Dictionary of the Landed Gentry of Great Britain & Ireland: M to Z//, London: Henry Colburn Publisher, 1846.)) May 1853 (no online record of his birth being registered has been found) - 29((Robert M-P has 18th)) October 1897((Qld Death registration C937))\\ 

5. Elizabeth (**Lizzie**) Catherine, 29 October 1854((Qld Births registration no. BBP1252 spells her name Elisabeth)) - 19 December 1940\\

 6. **Hervey** Morres, 9 September 1856((Qld Births registration no. C543)) - 1 January 1887((Qld Death registration C1359 gives his first name as 'Henry'.)) \\

 7. **Redmond**, 26 October 1858((Qld Births registration no. B781; TLM-P, genealogical notes in John & John B. Burke, //A Genealogical and Heraldic Dictionary of the Landed Gentry of Great Britain & Ireland: M to Z//, London: Henry Colburn Publisher, 1846.)) - 21 January 1911((Qld Death C198 has his death registered in 1911.)) 
 
 8. **Weeta** Sophia, b. 24 June 1860((Qld Births registration no. B208)) - 27 July 1860 ((Qld Death registration B488; Robert M-P has 12 June - 8 July 1860; TLM-P mistakenly recorded her death as 1861.))\\

9. **Hugh**, 25 or 26 July 1861((Qld Births registration no. B695; TLM-P gives 26 July 1861, TLM-P, genealogical notes in John & John B. Burke, A Genealogical and Heraldic Dictionary of the Landed Gentry of Great Britain & Ireland: M to Z, London: Henry Colburn Publisher, 1846; Robert M-P has 25 July.)) - 28 December 1895((Burke; Robert M-P states he died c.27 December 1897 but his death was registered in 1896; Qld Death registration C6.)) 
 
 10. **Lodge**, August 1863((Qld Births registration no. B1669; Robert M-P has 29 March 1863)) - September 1863.((Qld Death registration B1158.))\\

 11. **Matilda**, 26((Qld Births registraiton no. B3500;TLM-P has 27th, TLM-P, genealogical notes in John & John B. Burke, A Genealogical and Heraldic Dictionary of the Landed Gentry of Great Britain & Ireland: M to Z, London: Henry Colburn Publisher, 1846.)) January 1865 - 11 May 1865.((Qld Death registration B2324.))\\

 12. **Egerton**, 5 October 1866((Qld Births registration no. B6322; TLM-P, genealogical notes in John & John B. Burke, A Genealogical and Heraldic Dictionary of the Landed Gentry of Great Britain & Ireland: M to Z, London: Henry Colburn Publisher, 1846.)) - 1 September 1936.\\
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**For more details see sidebar entries for Thomas de M. M-P and his siblings.** For the children's, mainly the boys', education see [[matilda_s_sons_education|Boys' and girls' education]].